My father's death
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It's almost 2 years to the minute since my father died. I was actually on #ukscene at the *moment* he died. I just wanted to share that with someone.
My deepest condolences. I admire people who are able to
share stuff like that here. I wouldn't have balls to do it.
share stuff like that here. I wouldn't have balls to do it.
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Condolences too, even though after 2 years it's a bit late.
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My father died 11 years ago, but still, I miss him... Condolences, bn...
I wonder..... - why do you say that, Forcer? Are you afraid that saying things like this might make you more vulnerable? ... and make some sceners attack you???!!
I'm sorry to hear that!
I lost my mom when I was young .. couldn't bear the thought of losing my dad as well.
I lost my mom when I was young .. couldn't bear the thought of losing my dad as well.
bitnaughty,
I'm pretty private person so it's tough for me to share
about my problems with people I don't really know. I think it's just
my nature. I don't think anyone would attack me or make
fun of but I'm 32 so if it happened I sure I could handle it without
throwing fists.
I'm pretty private person so it's tough for me to share
about my problems with people I don't really know. I think it's just
my nature. I don't think anyone would attack me or make
fun of but I'm 32 so if it happened I sure I could handle it without
throwing fists.
Forcer,
I'm a pretty private person too, but I've given up trying to make friends in real life, so I post messages like these on the net - I just don't care anymore. I'm from India, and I have no friends over here, and I've been to the West, and I didn't end up making any friends over there, after being there for 3 years, all of them make friends with people from their own backgrounds (except *one* guy, an ex-Unix sysadmin who I still keep in touch with), so....... - I just don't CARE anymore.
It says a lot that you think people would make FUN OF YOU if you said something like that - my God, what type of *human beings* are sceners??!!!! I'm not going to give up my personality in order to make my code better.
I'm a pretty private person too, but I've given up trying to make friends in real life, so I post messages like these on the net - I just don't care anymore. I'm from India, and I have no friends over here, and I've been to the West, and I didn't end up making any friends over there, after being there for 3 years, all of them make friends with people from their own backgrounds (except *one* guy, an ex-Unix sysadmin who I still keep in touch with), so....... - I just don't CARE anymore.
It says a lot that you think people would make FUN OF YOU if you said something like that - my God, what type of *human beings* are sceners??!!!! I'm not going to give up my personality in order to make my code better.
... and by the way, every message in this thread has been so warm, expressing condolences for a person they don't even know, so - don't lose heart! :)
Thanks everyone who posted in this thread :)
Thanks everyone who posted in this thread :)
"It says a lot that you think people would make FUN OF YOU if you said something like that - my God, what type of *human beings* are sceners??!!!! "
I said I don't think anyone would attack me or make fun.
I think you misunderstood my comment.
cheers
I said I don't think anyone would attack me or make fun.
I think you misunderstood my comment.
cheers
1996 December 22 my grandmother (my father side) death (☨84 years old)
1996 December 23 my father was diagnosed with bladder cancer (47 years old)
2007 January 7 sudden death of my mother : pulmonary embolism. (☨60 years old)
2007 March 17 death of a brother of my father after ten year of renal failure (and dialysis). (☨60 years old)
2007 June 11 death of my grandmother (my mother side). heart attack in her sleep. (☨84 years old)
2008 July my father was diagnosed with renal failure (4 hours of dialysis 3 days a week). (60 years old)
2009 April Death of a brother of my father (complication after a bladder cancer operation). (☨71 years old)
2009 December Death of my girlfriend grand mother (father side). (☨84 years old)
2011 January Death of my girlfriend grand father (father side). (☨86 years old)
2011 April 22 My brother hanged himself the day of is 29th anniversary. (☨29 years old)
2011 July one of our friends is raped and head shouted during a trip to Argentina. (☨29 years old)
force et courage aux justes.
1996 December 23 my father was diagnosed with bladder cancer (47 years old)
2007 January 7 sudden death of my mother : pulmonary embolism. (☨60 years old)
2007 March 17 death of a brother of my father after ten year of renal failure (and dialysis). (☨60 years old)
2007 June 11 death of my grandmother (my mother side). heart attack in her sleep. (☨84 years old)
2008 July my father was diagnosed with renal failure (4 hours of dialysis 3 days a week). (60 years old)
2009 April Death of a brother of my father (complication after a bladder cancer operation). (☨71 years old)
2009 December Death of my girlfriend grand mother (father side). (☨84 years old)
2011 January Death of my girlfriend grand father (father side). (☨86 years old)
2011 April 22 My brother hanged himself the day of is 29th anniversary. (☨29 years old)
2011 July one of our friends is raped and head shouted during a trip to Argentina. (☨29 years old)
force et courage aux justes.
